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from Jesus:
Let me begin by saying that
contrary to what so many churches, including many Christian churches,
have said, there is nothing inherently wrong or sinful about the sexual
union between a man and woman. If practiced with pure love, sexual activity
is not a sin and will not misqualify God’s energy.
That being said, I must tell you that in the world of today it is difficult
to keep the sexual relationship pure. This is because the advertising
industry, heavily influenced and supported by certain dark forces, are
constantly bombarding people with images, suggestions and even subtle
energies designed to increase sexual desire. Furthermore, many people
have developed, as a result of of this bombardment and certain other
forms of social programming, the attitude that they are entitled to
have unlimited amounts of sex.
Therefore, if you want to keep your sexual relationship pure, or if
you do not have sexual relations, you need to defend yourself, you need
to defend your energy field and your mental and emotional body, from
the bombardment of sexual suggestions and energies.
This defense must begin with a decision. You must realize that you are
being aggressively and maliciously bombarded with sexual suggestions
and you must decide that you are not willing to submit to this programming.
Therefore, you must decide to avoid such suggestions whenever possible.
It is also extremely important that you use the proper spiritual technique
to defend your personal energy field (the energy field surrounding your
physical body) by building a shield of high-frequency spiritual energy
around it. The book The
Inner Path of Light contains teachings on your personal energy field
and the need for an energy defense. I have given techniques for protection
but the most efficient technique is Archangel
Michaels Rosary.
When I say that there is nothing inherently wrong about sex, I am in
no way implying that people can have all the sex they want without paying
the price. Life in the material universe is a matter of deciding how
you use the always limited resources available to you. If you spend
time on one activity, you cannot spend that same amount of time on another
activity. If you spend time and energy on sex, you cannot spend that
time and energy on activities aimed at producing spiritual progress.
One of the most important realizations you can come to about sex is
that there are two kinds of sexual desire. The lower mind, also called
the carnal mind, is as a computer that runs the physical body. One of
the functions of this body computer is to insure the survival of the
body, and this includes propagation. Therefore, the carnal mind is programmed
to want sex all the time.
Many people give in to this desire and their entire lives revolve around
sex. They are either having sex, working towards having sex or feeling
like they should be having more sex. The bottom line is that the carnal
mind’s desire for sex is an insatiable desire. No matter how much
sex you have, it will never be enough for the carnal mind.
If you give in to this insatiable desire, you will open your personal
energy field to the suggestions of the outside world. You will also
make yourself vulnerable to certain lower forces that will seek to invade
your energy field. I have described such entities in greater detail
in the book The Christ Is Born
in You. These forces also have an insatiable desire for sex, and
they will seek to project that desire upon you. If you give in to this,
your life will be consumed by an insatiable desire for sex.
When a soul first descends into the material universe, the soul has
a desire to experience the many things you can do with a physical body,
and this includes sex. There is nothing inherently wrong or sinful about
this desire. However, it is essential to recognize that the soul’s
desire for sex is a satiable desire. In other words, a soul can truly
have enough sex and decide that it wants to spend its time and energy
in pursuit of more spiritual goals.
It is normal that during the course of one lifetime, a soul gradually
loses its desire for sex and begins to focus more on spiritual activities.
There are also many souls who have basically overcome their desire for
sex in past embodiments and who are therefore ready to give it up on
a permanent basis.
The most important thing you can do before you attempt to sublimate
sexual energy is to decide where you stand on this matter. Once you
have a firm inner decision of how you look at sexual activity and how
you desire to practice or not practice it, you stand a much better chance
of escaping the outside bombardment as well as the insatiable desire
of the carnal mind.
One of the big mistakes made by so many religious people, especially
many monks, nuns and priests of the Catholic Church, is that they never
come to this decision. They simply decide with their outer minds that
because the church says sex is sinful, they must attempt to repress
all sexual urges. This will be an uphill battle for most people, and
for some people it will be a losing battle. This is clearly demonstrated
in the sexual abuse by Catholic priests.
So what I am saying here is that before you even attempt to use a technique
to sublimate sexual energy, you should make an effort to come to an
inner clarity about your attitude toward sex. To build this inner clarity,
use the technique for inner attunement
that I have given on this website. Strive to make contact with your
Christ self and with me. Do not fear to approach me or to ask me questions
about sex. Contrary to what so many Christians seem to believe, I have
a perfectly natural and relaxed attitude to sex. There are no taboo
topics for me. You can ask me any question, and I will answer. Your
Holy Christ self, and I, will be more than happy to help you clarify
and resolve your attitude towards sex.
Once you have inner clarity, apply the following technique for raising
sexual energy to the level of the heart.
A technique
As stated in many places on this website, science has proven that everything
is made of energy. The book The Inner Path of Light describes
this fact in greater detail and also describes the existence of a personal
energy field.
Your energy field has certain centers, often called chakras. When you
express mental or emotional energy, you express it through these energy
centers. One of the energy centers is located at the base of your spine
at the same height as the genitals. In esoteric teachings, this is often
called the base chakra.
When you are exposed to suggestive energies from the outside, this energy
often enters your base chakra and pollutes it. The desires of your carnal
mind can also pollute your base chakra. This can cause the base chakra
to be miscolored, and for many people this chakra radiates red or orange
light. If the base chakra is pure, it radiates pure white light.
When you feel a physical stimulation, that stimulation begins in your
base chakra. The chakra begins to spin and to radiate misqualified sexual
energy which then arouses your physical organs. In other words, physical
arousal always begins with energy in the base chakra. If you want to
sublimate the spiritual energy, you must cause the energy to rise from
the level of the base chakra to the energy center in the middle of your
chest, often called the heart chakra.
I suggest the following visualization:
- As soon as you feel any
kind of sexual stimulation, make an immediate decision to stop the
energy from flowing into your sexual organs.
- Focus your attention on
your base chakra and visualize that it begins to spin more quickly
so that it throws off all imperfect energy and begins to radiate pure
white light. To help with this visualization, you might visualize
myself or my blessed mother, the Virgin Mary, over your base chakra.
Certain Ascended Masters are associated with certain types of spiritual
light, and Mother Mary is working with the white light, also called
the Mother Light, of the base chakra. Therefore, she is more than
willing to help you sublimate sexual energy.
- When you feel that your
base chakra is radiating white light, visualize that the white light
rises up to the heart chakra and is expressed through that chakra
as the pink light of love. You might visualize your heart chakra as
a pink rose with 12 petals. The rose spins and radiates a beautiful,
soft pink light.
- Focus your attention on
a spiritual being, be it God, Mother Mary, myself or another spiritual
being of your choice, and send this intense love towards the spiritual
being.
- Visualize that you make
contact with the spiritual Master and establish a figure-eight flow
between yourself and the Master. You are raising the energy from your
base chakra to the level of your heart and sending that energy to
the spiritual Master. The Master is then sending the energy back to
your heart chakra where it connects in a figure-eight flow to your
base chakra.
- Visualize this figure-eight
flow between yourself and the Master until you feel that all impure
energies have been purified.
Once you begin to practice this technique regularly, it will become
almost automatic. You can do it anywhere in a few seconds, and you will
be amazed at the results. However, no spiritual technique works against
your free will. Therefore, you must begin by clarifying your attitude
towards sex and by making a firm inner decision about your relationship
to sex. This is a decision that only you can make.
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