| Answer
from Jesus:
It has been said that time
heals all wounds. Yet the real magic wand that will heal all wounds
is unconditional love. So the best way to heal children of any kind
of abuse is to show them unconditional love no matter what has happened
in the past. As they grow older, you can begin to teach them about unconditional
love and how it makes it possible for them to rise above any imperfections
of the past.
I have given some detailed teachings on unconditional love elsewhere.
In this context, the most important aspect of unconditional love is
that there are no conditions on Earth that make you unworthy of God’s
love. That is the message I brought to Earth 2,000 years ago. Unfortunately,
mainstream Christianity has not embraced this message, and that is why
most adults were brought up with no understanding or experience of unconditional
love. So before you can demonstrate and teach unconditional love to
children, you have to first heal yourself.
If you have caused children to be hurt or abused, you need to heal the
psychological wounds that caused your actions. You might follow the
practical steps I outline elsewhere.
Yet in the end, you need to forgive yourself, and you can do that only
when you accept that God loves you unconditionally. Once you accept
God’s unconditional love for your soul, you can become an open
door, whereby the ever-flowing river of God’s love can stream
through you and wash away the wounds of the children.
When children are abused, their energy fields are scattered, and this
easily causes their souls to fracture, as described elsewhere.
Once a child’s energy field is open, it can – or rather
it will – be invaded by dark forces or imperfect energies. It
is therefore extremely important that you call for the spiritual protection
of such a child, and I recommend Archangel
Michael’s Rosary. As the child grows older, you can begin
to take the child through various forms of therapy to heal the wounds
in the soul. I talk more about this elsewhere.
Obviously, abuse causes a child to produce imperfect energy that will
accumulate in the child’s energy field. This will make the psychological
wounds feel more intense and block the healing process. So using spiritual
tools to transmute that energy can have a major positive effect on the
child’s healing. I recommend Mother
Mary’s rosaries, especially the Forgiveness
and Unconditional
Love rosaries. As soon as the child is old enough, give the Miracle
Rosary for Children with the child.
Take note that the Children’s rosary contains the concept of a
lower self and a Christ self. These are concepts that can be taught
to children at a very early age. Children can also be taught that there
is a force of Light inside of them and a force of darkness outside of
them. Even young children can understand these concepts because they
often experience this intuitively. So it is possible to make then understand
that there are dark forces that are seeking to hurt them. These dark
forces can use adults or other children around them, and any adult or
child can be used as a tool on a temporary basis.
The important lesson here is that these dark forces will attack anyone
and use anyone. So the fact that the child was abused was not because
the child was bad and therefore deserved the abuse. This is an extremely
important concept to teach to children, because children often feel
responsible for everything that goes on in “their” world.
The reason being that they see themselves as the center of their world—which
is true since every soul is the center of its world.
So you need to teach them that the abuse was not caused by the child
being bad or having done bad things. It was an attack by dark forces,
seeking to hurt the child and working through other people because these
people were listening to their lower selves. These forces seek to hurt
all children, so it wasn’t just that one child being targeted.
This can lead to the next important step, which is to help the child
see that the adult or child who performed the abuse was not actually
seeking to punish the child. The abuser was being used by the dark forces,
but this was only a temporary thing. All people can be used by dark
forces when they are under the influence of the lower self. The way
out of this is to reach for the Christ self within you.
This can gradually lead the child to understand that the child is not
a bad person for being abused, and the person who carried out the abuse
is not a bad person for temporarily being under the influence of dark
forces. On the contrary, by seeing that the dark forces are behind it
all, both the child and the abuser can rise above the lower self. It
is the lower self that causes people to do bad things by making them
vulnerable to dark forces. And it is the lower self that causes people
to feel bad about what has been done to them. The Christ self will help
the child forgive itself and others so it can leave the bad feelings
behind.
My point is that by gently teaching a child a few of these concepts,
it is possible to deflect the child’s anger, frustration, guilt
and blame away from itself and away from the person abusing the child.
This can then open the door for the healing of all parties involved,
especially when spiritual tools are used to truly keep the dark forces
from exploiting the situation and creating a lifelong rift between child
and adult.
Unfortunately, no method is foolproof, so it is important not to focus
too much attention on dark forces or to instill a fear in the child
of such forces. This is best done by also introducing the forces of
Light, such as Mother Mary, Archangel Michael, myself and the child’s
Christ self. The child can then be taught that when it reaches for its
Christ self, it will be protected and healed. The child can easily understand
that the forces of light are stronger than the forces of darkness—as
long as the child or adults do not choose to listen to the lower self.
Of course, for you to teach
such concepts, you need to believe them and have integrated the teaching.
You cannot be like an adult who teaches a young child about Santa Claus
without really believing in him. So you need to be actively walking
the spiritual path.
I realize these concepts go beyond what most adults were taught as children,
yet this is not because the concepts are beyond the comprehension of
young children. Young children can comprehend far more about spiritual
concepts than today's educators are willing to admit. So the real problem
is that spiritual concepts are not currently part of the “kindergarten
curriculum” as accepted by mainstream religion and science. This
is, however, a defect that should not stop spiritual people, and it
is a defect that will be corrected in coming decades. If you are willing,
you can start living the future now, and I strongly encourage teachers
and others who work with children to use some of my concepts from this
website to create a curriculum to teach all children about the human
psyche and how it affects everything they do. This could start by focusing
on helping children and adults cope with abuse, but it could easily
be expanded to teach all children how to avoid being hurt and how to
heal the wounds that cannot be avoided.
The fact that children are not taught about the basic psychological/spiritual
reality is a travesty that causes much unnecessary suffering. Therefore,
there is a vast potential for people who have experience in working
with children to create a curriculum that teaches young children about
these concepts. There is no greater service that could be rendered to
children than to teach them how to master their own psychology instead
of being a helpless victim of it. And this can start at a very early
age. It is not a limitation in the learning abilities of children that
prevents this from happening; it is a limitation in the teaching abilities
of adults and society.
If you are an educator or you are working with children in other ways,
I can assure you that the Ascended Host are more than willing to work
with those who will walk the path of Christhood and who will then express
their Christhood by improving education on this planet. When you realize
that the basic problem on planet Earth is ignorance, especially spiritual
ignorance, you also see that education is one of the most important
human activities. Therefore, you should know that the Ascended Host
are eager to work with those who have expertise in the field but who
have not allowed their current knowledge to close their minds to a new
approach.
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