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| Question: Thank you for your presence through this web site and the wealth of information you offer (again). Would you comment on the "applied spirituality" of 12 step programs? Anything you know would be helpful, of course, but an example I am curious about is the lack of reference to dark forces. This web site has emphasized spiritual protection, and I am wondering what it means that the program works well for many people without reference to the dark. I also still can't shake doubt in the premise of the incurability of addiction. Just as there are healings of physical sickness, I think that an addict becoming moderate would be more of a testimony to God and his power than the prohibition of even ever taking a sip of wine. Of course the stakes are high for an addict, so any clarity or new information coming from you would be profoundly appreciated. |
| Answer from Jesus: The Ascended Host consider
Alcoholics Anonymous and most of its offshoots to be a very successful
program that has helped many people overcome various types of addictions.
However, one of the ideas I seek to get across on this website is that
humankind is in a process of gradually raising its consciousness to
higher and higher levels. This growth process is right now in an accelerated
cycle as we move into a new spiritual age. The consequence of this growth
process is that any organization must continually renew itself in order
to remain effective. If an organization does not keep up with the forward
movement of the consciousness of humankind, it will lose some of its
appeal and effectiveness, and I think people who know Alcoholics Anonymous
and other 12-step programs will agree that over the past decades they
have indeed lost some of their effectiveness.
Before people knew about
the existence of bacteria, many people still managed to lead healthy
lives without dying of a bacterial infection. So the AA program can
help many people, even though it does not contain any teachings about
dark forces. As I said, some addicts simply would not be able to accept
the idea of dark forces. On the other hand, in today's world many people
are more open to the acceptance of this, and there is no doubt that
when you understand the existence of dark forces, you have far better
options for overcoming an addiction.
The premise of the incurability
of addiction is an example of how the teachings of AA are designed specifically
for people who are considered hopeless alcoholics. For such people it
can be a valid premise until, and I stress until, they get some control
over the physical addiction. As I said above, there is a great need
for a recovery program that helps people go beyond the phase of being
sober. 1. We admitted we were powerless over alcohol -- that our lives had become unmanageable. A necessary first step. Until you recognize and admit that there is a problem which must be overcome, you have no chance of solving the problem. Yet you could take this step much further through the recognition that you are powerless only because there is something you do not understand. In other words, by acquiring an understanding of the psychological and spiritual causes of your addiction, you will attain power over the addiction. With all thy getting, get understanding. 2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. A viable step, but one could go much further by giving people an understanding of exactly what that power is and where it is located. For example, it is true that you cannot overcome the addiction through your human ego, your wounded psychology and your carnal mind. Yet the power that is greater than this lower self is not some mysterious entity outside yourself. The kingdom of God is within you, and it is your Christ self and I AM Presence that give you the power to overcome an addiction. Therefore, the spiritual key to overcoming an addiction is to develop a conscious connection to your Christ self and I AM Presence. Thereby, you gain true independence instead of becoming codependent on some mysterious power outside yourself. 3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him. A viable step, but it could be made much more powerful by giving people a deeper understanding of the God within. God helps those who help themselves, and that is why I said both that “I can of my own self do nothing” and that “My father worketh hitherto and I work.” The father who is within me is the same father who is within everyone. 4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. Again, a viable step that could be made much more powerful by giving people an understanding that the addiction was caused by their lower selves and wounded psychology. You are not confined to this lower self and human ego. You are more than the lower self, and the key to successful recovery is to discover that more and come to identify yourself as the spiritual being you truly are instead of identifying yourself as a limited human being who will forever remain an addict. 5. Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs. A valuable step, but only as valuable as your understanding of the exact nature of your “wrongs,” meaning your wounds. In other words, by acquiring the understanding I have talked about in the previous steps, you could make this step far more effective because you gain the power to resolve the cause of the addiction. 6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character. A good step, but it will not be ultimately effective until you realize that God is within you and that God will not simply take away your defects of character. You also need to realize that no defect of character is set in stone. As I explain throughout this website, everything is subject to your free will. You have created your current defects of character by making certain choices that led to a wounded psychology. You will overcome those defects only when you understand the original decision and consciously undo that decision by making a better choice. As long as you believe in some outside force who will solve your problems for you, you will not have the ultimate power to overcome those problems. And as long as you believe you have no power to change your defects of character, you will not be free of those defects. 7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings. Again, a viable step, but it is far more effective when you realize that God is within you. Therefore, what you truly need to ask for is that your Christ self enlighten you about the toxic decisions you made in the past and how you can replace those decisions with better decisions. 8. Made a list of
all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them
all. Both are valid steps, but what does it truly mean to make amends? Is it enough to simply say you are sorry? Apologizing is an important step, but it does not heal the psychological wounds that you might have caused another person through your addictive behavior. So the ultimate understanding here is that the way for you to recover from the addiction is to heal the psychological wounds that caused the addiction. And the ultimate way to make amends to other people is to give them the tools and understanding they need to heal their psychological wounds. In other words, a truly effective recovery program will help the addict heal all psychological wounds, but will also help the families of the addicts heal their psychological wounds. In this way everyone can become whole. 10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it. A good step. All spiritual seekers should do this throughout their lives. Yet this step will be far more effective when it is based on a philosophy that helps people experience ongoing growth and go beyond simply being sober by empowering them to start a lifelong process of spiritual growth. 11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out. A good step that can be made far more effective by seeing God as being within you and making an all-out effort to establish and expand your contact with and your integration with your Christ self. It is only by acknowledging your true identity as a spiritual being that you will come to understand God, that you will have knowledge of his will and that you will have the power to carry out his will over the will of your ego. In reality, you can carry out God’s will only when you recognize that God’s will is truly the will of your higher self within you. In other words, it is not something that is imposed upon you from an external deity. It is the true, innermost desire of your own soul. 12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics and to practice these principles in all our affairs. Again, a true spiritual awakening
must come from within. When you recognize the existence of your Christ
self, you have a far greater probability of experiencing that spiritual
awakening. And only by making contact with your Christ self can you
fully internalize the spiritual awakening and carry it out in terms
of helping other people and practicing the spiritual principles. This
is the true spirituality that I talked about when I rebuked the scribes,
the Pharisees and all of the many other people who had set themselves
up on a pedestal by practicing an outer religion that was not a true,
internalized spiritual awakening. Back to topic main page. Back to Answers main page. Copyright © 2004 by Kim Michaels |
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