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How do you accept an idea?

Inner and outer acceptance
Going beyond the relativity of intellect and emotions

Why is intuition the key to personal growth?

It is virtually impossible to find an idea or a so-called fact that every human being accepts. The reason is that you cannot find an absolute proof, meaning a proof that cannot be questioned by the human mind.

You probably believe the earth is round, but what proof do you have? You might have seen a photo that was supposedly taken from space, but photos can be manipulated. If you really want to, you can cast doubt upon any “factual” evidence which seems to indicate that the earth is round. Even if you took a trip to the international space station and orbited the earth, you could still argue that this doesn’t constitute absolute proof. You could have been hallucinating, you could have been hypnotized or the whole trip might have been simulated in some secret government facility.

These ideas are not meant to question that the earth is round, but to point out that the human mind has an ability to doubt everything. Therefore, one might reason that to our normal human awareness, there is no such thing as absolute proof.

You can present two people with the exact same idea. One of them might accept it as the absolute truth, while the other will doubt it, ridicule it or reject it as completely untrue. How do you explain this contrast? The simple conclusion is that a person’s acceptance of an idea is not the automatic product of the idea itself. It is not possible to find an idea that every human being will accept. Therefore, the acceptance or rejection of an idea must be based on a process that takes place inside the mind of the individual person.


How do you accept an idea?


If there is no absolute proof, how do you ever come to accept any idea or fact? Why aren’t you doubting everything? Well, experience demonstrates that a person who doubts everything cannot function as a normal human being.

Some people have a psychological disorder that causes them to doubt everything, from their own identity to the most basic aspects of everyday life. These people often experience severe anxiety, bordering on panic attacks. In many cases, such people cannot function emotionally, and they end up in a mental institution.

It is a basic fact that a normal human being needs to have a mental and emotional foundation, namely a sense of identity. This sense of identity is based on ideas or “facts” that are considered valid and reliable. Without such a stable platform, we simply cannot function.

How do you come to accept these ideas? You do so through a process that takes place inside your own mind. If you want to find meaningful answers to life’s deeper questions, you need to become more aware of this process and how it works.


Inner and outer acceptance


Most people have a set of core beliefs that they consider to be valid, reliable, factual or even above questioning. One might say that inside your your mind is a container that stores your core beliefs. A core belief is something that you rarely question.

Before an idea or fact is admitted into this container, it must go through an evaluation process. Every person has a process for evaluating whether an idea should be allowed into the hallowed circle of core beliefs.
When evaluating an idea, you can take two basic approaches:

  • The outer approach. When you take this approach, you accept the idea based on outer evidence. For example, an idea might fit into your existing beliefs, and therefore you accept that the idea must be true. In other cases, an idea is presented by a person, organization or belief system that you consider to be reliable, perhaps even infallible. Once again, you accept the idea without truly evaluating the idea.
    When you take the outer approach to accepting an idea, you are using your intellect or your emotions. You might take an intellectual approach and do a rational and logical evaluation of how the idea fits into the framework of what you already accept. You might take an emotional approach and accept the idea because you want it to be true or because you gain some form of advantage by accepting the idea.
  • The inner approach. When you take this approach, you are evaluating the idea in a way that goes beyond intellectual reasoning or emotional desire. Instead of accepting the idea at face value, you are seeking a deeper understanding of the idea. You are not simply comparing the idea to your existing beliefs or to an outer belief system. You are truly evaluating whether the idea is valid, and you are basing this evaluation on something that goes beyond both the intellect and emotions. When you take the inner approach, you are evaluating the idea by using your intuition. Intuition could also be called a form of higher reasoning, because it goes beyond both the intellect and the emotions.


Going beyond the relativity of intellect and emotions


The intellect and the emotions are relative faculties of the mind.

With the human intellect, you can argue for or against any given idea without ever reaching a final conclusion as to the validity of the idea. The intellect compares every new idea to some existing idea and seeks to place the new idea on a relative scale between true and false. However, true and false are defined according to the belief-system currently accepted by the intellect. The intellect is not concerned with truth in a larger sense; it is only concerned with what fits into the framework of its existing beliefs.

The human emotions are ever-changing and cannot give you a stable platform for finding meaningful answers to life’s questions. The emotions are not concerned with truth; they simply believe what they want to believe or what seems to offer a short-term advantage.

When you use your intuition, you go beyond both the intellect and the emotions. You send an idea to a higher part of your mind, and you allow that higher mind to give you a deeper understanding of the idea. You then use this deeper understanding (an understanding that is not effected by intellectual analysis or emotional desire) to decide whether the idea is valid.

When you take this inner approach, you might not be able to give an intellectual explanation of why you accept an idea. You simply know that the idea is valid even though you cannot argue why. Your intuition is also above the relative and ever-changing values of the emotions. When you accept an idea intuitively, that acceptance has a timeless and enduring quality.

If you truly want answers to life’s questions, you need to become more conscious of your intuitive faculties, and you need to start using them in a more systematic manner. Intuition can do much more for you than help you find more profound answers. It can help you integrate those answers so that you can use them to change your life for the better. Most people don’t want answers out of mere curiosity; they want answers that will help them transform their lives in a positive direction.

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